THE WISE MANIFESTO FOR LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
- I recognize that a healthy loving relationship with self is the key
to a healthy loving relationship with another.
- I recognize that there are many influences on the definition of
relationships through music, movies and literature. The creation of our
own definition beyond external influences results in healthy loving
relationships.
- I recognize we are all individuals and to nurture that
individuality within the relationship will ensure not only our own growth individually
but within the relationship as well.
- I recognize that placing expectations on others leads to self
imposed limitations with myself and within the relationship
- I recognize that giving parts/pieces of oneself or taking of
others, in ways that interfere with or impede individuals truth and/or
being whole, ultimately results in imbalance and discourse within the
relationship. The intent of each individual in a relationship will be
apparent early on within the connection.
- I recognize that the "honeymoon" phase of a relationship
provides us with many valuable clues about the other person, and listening
to our inner voice is the key to understanding the future potential of the
relationship.
- I recognize that trust in others begins with trust in oneself.
- I recognize that previous relationships can have an effect on
present relationships if the traps (both emotional and physical) are not
acknowledged and fully understood.
- I recognize that a healthy loving relationship will develop based
on the intent of both parties to it.
- I recognize that actions speak louder then words.
- I recognize that I am whole and comfortable and embrace who I am.
- I recognize that if I have to coax/convince or be coaxed/convinced
to do something, then I am not being true to myself nor respecting the
other person.
- I recognize that if I do not feel good about myself within the
relationship then I am not in a healthy loving relationship
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